Dean Kosage's response the negative on the internet

I will give you advice on how to deal with negativeloves to write on it . I personally never brought a pen
online or haters in general but first I will use myselfinto the bathroom to talk about someone else :)
as a example , because I went through this myself :)3 the last reason I did not respond is I was watching
so don't worry if this is happening to you ... itScott Larson already get sued by many people and
happens to all great thinkers or leaders . Hopefully mycompanies already so I was focused on recovering
story can assure you I understand the pain and giveemotionally , financially, and most of all a being good
you hope :)DAD :) Scott has been sued by the some of the
The negative online I dealt with was erected bylargest companies and some very creditable people
Scott Larson ( the old school verson of perez hiltonand now is hiding in a foreign country , his computer
the celebrity blogger ) and hater of networkingwas seized from my understanding as well .
companies , his goal was to try and shame AmwayHOW DO YOU HEAL ?
Quixtar a Billion Dollar company for changing theirHopefully you know now that I can relate and if any
name to Quixtar in addition to redirecting people toof you have dealt with online gossip or haters here is
Quixtar/Amways competition humm :)my advice .
In order to do this he attacked any of us who made1 Yes it hurts but stop whining and look up how
the cover of the magazines for Quixtar in the yearmany people hate on mother teresa online its over
2000 when they changed their name . As most40,000 plus so no matter what if you spend your life
celebrities bloggers they are willing to say andhelping people you will gain haters , type " i hate
fabricate and twist anything to gain some online fameanthing thing and see what comes up " it will shock
as they try to look like a concerned watch dogyou .
organization .Most of them are just trying to use youNormally only Hollywood dealt with this type of stuff
to gain more of a audience for themselves .but now we all have to if we stick our heads above
In my case he found the incident of a 911 call I madethe crowd .
one night during my Divorce , in which my ex wife2 Stay close to other winners who know what it
was taken to jail by the police .feels like so you don't doubt yourself ... when your
Scott posted up my ex wifes and mother in laws "values and character gets attacked you can lose
statements " from that night and called them " policetons of energy if your not protected by good people
reports " which of course they where not . The. "The intelligent wounded animal seeks the
short version is the police did what they are trainedtemporary shelter of the heard "
to when they respond to a domestic violence , They3 Read about other impact players in life and gain
took the " statements " of the 3 of us that wherestrength from their stories of overcoming . This will
there . Then lucky for me they where able to listendeepen your compassion for others .
to the 911 call I placed because I left my phone on4 If your are spiritual remind yourself that " this to
so the police dispatch could listen in .shall pass " and that your faith requires these tough
Obviously the 911 recording did not match thetimes to grow :)
"statements" from my ex or her mother and she5 Trust that there are plenty of great intelligent
was taken to jail .people out there who don't believe gossip or worse
It was a very embarrassing night for my ex wife (treat you as if you are guilty . IN fact the most
we all have bad moments ) and of course she theninfluential will relate to you now :)
tried to find a 2 to 3 people who agreed with her to6 Last do not feel guilty for your feelings of anger or
post negative about me in fear I would now take fullpain , or resentment . Often in todays world people
custody . Anyone that has gone through a divorcetry make you feel as if you react to a situation with
knows people take sides it is to be expected.anger or pain that you need help or are out of
It is unfortunate that a blogger is using that night ofcontrol . Feelings are human , and we often will speak
personal pain to throw mud at a networkingout of the flesh when we feel attacked . Even
company . I would expect anyone of maturity to seethough we may choose to use faith to recovery or
instantly that this is just a google bomber webto heal it does not mean getting upset or vocal is
posting vs who is posting the negative statementswrong . The " turn the other cheek " phrase that is
of a ex wife who went to jail , hence rendering itso often misquoted and taken out of context can
worthless and part of the online celebrity gossipreally cause you guilt until you find a true mature
sights :)person of faith or a pastor who can help you
I have been a bit amazed however some peopleunderstand how to interpret that passage .
seem to believe a "statement " as if its true evenI am not saying its ok to chase someone down for
though they have not meet the person who wrote itrevenge , or to try and defame them . but it is ok to
or the fact that the police ignored the statements ,defend yourself and to get upset if your core values
or that my statement from that night somehow he,family , or business is being attacked . Remember a
decided not to post :)cornered female or male who is protecting their child
I have not responded to the online sight until now foror family or village is going to fight ....
the following reasons .WINNERS are go getters , and GOD also Created
1 ) my daughter was not old enough to deal with theWarriors . Its also time people stop thinking a person
questions that would come up , plus what good doesof faith is MR ROGERS with a beard . Read wild at
it do to tell your daughter that her mom went to jailheart if you feel everyone needs to react calmly to
for being physical and not respecting the law . We allbe a great person . While it might be the goal we are
make mistakes .human .
2 ) If you are trying to discredit someone who hasFOR ME
been speaking and mentoring people publicly for 17yrsAttending seminars and staying plugged into good
and all you can find is a bad night during a divorcefamilies I was able recover quickly and to home
over a decade ago I would think you would realizeschool my daughter during her younger years .
thats amazing . Heck if you put 10 people in theDue to the fact this all happened in the public eye , I
same room , you already have a issue somewhere ,was blessed to gain the respect of respected and
and in todays world the internet has just become theinfluential people all around the world Hench my last
bathroom wall that attracts a certain crowd whofew awards from CAMBRIDGE and STRAFHMORES .