| How many of us have never experienced what is to | | | | talks. The name is gossip. To gossip is to talk with |
| be back stabbed? How painful it is to know that our | | | | someone against somebody. When that person we |
| friends suspected us unreasonably, talked against us | | | | talk against trust us and love us, we have really also |
| in our absence and judged us without giving a chance | | | | fallen into back fighter. |
| to air our side and present our defense. I believed | | | | Certainly, we have used our gift of speech not for |
| this is a "serious form of injustice" to judge a friend | | | | the sake of life and love. A lot of words from our lips |
| as unreliable and crooked without hearing our side | | | | have brought hurts and pain even death to some. No |
| and listening to our hurts. | | | | one could deny what is to be back stabbed, and for |
| Sometimes, we do it in the privacy of our minds. We | | | | one thing sure nobody likes a backstabber. The |
| process our suspects in our minds and judge them. | | | | psychological suffering of our own friend betraying us |
| Later on we allow our judgments to turn into | | | | is even more serious and more painful than the pain |
| prejudice and then turn our injustice into resistance, | | | | that our enemies infliction us. If we lack money, all |
| then to resentment and then to revenge. All these | | | | we need is money and our problem is solved. |
| processes taking place in the privacy of our minds. | | | | However if our pain is psychological, and we are |
| Often times, we use breakfast, coffee-break, lunch | | | | suffering from loneliness, from the indifference of |
| break, or dinner parties to talk against one another. | | | | friends and love one, it cannot be relieved by |
| Here, we influence one another by our | | | | something which we can purchase at the "mall". It |
| "insinuations," "gossips" and "insinuations." We | | | | can only be solved by even more love. It is |
| excuse ourselves by calling these occasions as party | | | | understandable to have our enemies hurt us. |